All about St. Elizabeth Seton Church!

Welcome Letter from our pastor

As the pastor of St. Elizabeth Seton Parish, I welcome you to our parish website and invite you to explore all we have to offer as a faith community. We have made every attempt to make our website user-friendly in order to answer any questions you may have.

Our Parish Mission Statement stresses that we strive to create a loving environment in which people feel welcome to participate and worship. I hope that you will find this to be a friendly and loving community.

St. Elizabeth Seton Parish believes in Stewardship! We strive to recognize that everything we have is a gift from God. All we have falls into three categories, time, talent, and treasure. These gifts of time, talent, and treasure, are to be gratefully received, shared generously, and returned to God with praise. Each of us has much to offer and I ask you to consider volunteering your time and talent for one of our many ministries.

 

Sincerely in Christ,

 

Rev. Richard Smith

Link to photos of our staff

 

Automated Giving and Credit Card Donations

Automatic debit or EFT (Electronic Funds Transfer) is one way to contribute to St. Elizabeth Seton. The Parish pays no fees so 100% of your donation is used for Parish Operations. To sign up, fill out the enrollment form below and drop it in the collection basket or mail it to the Parish Office-2220 Lisson Road, Naperville, IL 60565.

Another way to contribute regularly is through credit card donations. To make donations with your credit card, go to www.parishpay.com and follow the instructions. Parish Pay allows you to manage your contributions to St. Elizabeth Seton. Unlike automatic debit, parish pay does charge us fees of approximately 4% to manage this service.

If you have any questions regarding automatic debit or credit card donations, please contact Kathy McGowan at 630-416-3325.

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Staff Directory

SES Pastoral Staff


The Pastoral Staff is a group of people who are involved in religious ministry on a day-to-day basis. It is composed of priests, deacons, and laity engaged in pastoral work. The staff comes together, utilizing their own area of expertise in exercising their responsibility to the total parish. Through frequent meetings, shared work and prayer, members of the staff develop relationships with one another and with parishioners that are most conducive to fostering growth of the parish community.

The Pastoral Staff is to be of direct service to the Pastoral Council as a resource and to provide assistance whenever necessary to facilitate planning.

Link to photos of our staff


Rev. Richard Smith

Pastor

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 sesfrsmith@comcast.net

Rev. Patrick Murphy

Resident

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Andy Cirmo

Deacon

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 ancirmo@wowway.com

Bart Federici

Deacon

416-3325 x732

 bartles67@gmail.com

Tom Ross

Deacon 416-3325 x752 sligo8@wowway.com
Gary Swauger Deacon retired
Peggy Idstein

Director of Religious Education (Elementary)

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 peggy.idstein@sbcglobal.net
Sheila Stevenson

Director of Religious Education (High School and Jr. High)

416-1992 x224

 sheilamce@sbcglobal.net
Jason Novak Youth Minister Director of Young Adult Ministry 416-1992  jnovak.ym@sbcglobal.net

Kathy McGowan

Business Manager

420-1734

 kcmcgwn@aol.com

Sr. Karen Nykiel, O.S.B.

Pastoral Associate

416-3325 x202

 sessrkaren@comcast.net
Allen & Patti Stock Music Directors 701-4036  sesmusic@comcast.net

Support Staff

Felicia Donofrio Parish Secretary 416-3325 x102 sesfdonofrio@comcast.net
Donna Majeski

Bulletin Editor

416-3325 x132 sesdmajeski@comcast.net
Mary Mellens

R.E. Secretary

416-1992 x226 mary.mellens_ses@sbcglobal.net
Jim Stueber

Facilities Assistant

420-2526 james.e.stueber@sbcglobal.net
Michelle Cerrillos

R.E. Secretary

416-1992 michelle.SES@sbcglobal.net

Carol Suroweic

R.E. Secretary

416-1992 x222

Carol.SES@sbcglobal.net

 

Parish Guide Book

This document describes our parish structure and all the many ministries that work together for the good of the people of God.

2012 SES Guide Book

Our Patron Saint

St. Elizabeth Seton statue at SES

Our parish is named after the first American Saint, St. Elizabeth Ann Bayley Seton.

We have taken the opportunity of portraying her life and struggles in our stained glass windows.  In 2008, a special prayer area was created with an original statue.

Links to more information about the life of our patron:

National Shrine: Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton

Catholic Online article on her life

Links to info about our church building:

Biography of Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton

St. Elizabeth Ann Bailey Seton

St. Elizabeth Ann Bailey Seton

SETON, Elizabeth Ann Bayley,

born in New York city, 28 August, 1774 ;
died in Emmitsburg, Maryland, 4 January, 1821.
canonized the first American-born saint by Pope Paul VI in 1975.

Elizabeth Ann Bayley, one of two daughters of a prominent Episcopal family, was born in New York on August 28, 1774. She was a charming little girl, small-boned and dainty, with great brown eyes. Having lost her mother at the age of three, she was deeply attached to her physician father and used to sit beside her schoolroom window watching for him on the street. When he appeared, she would slip out quickly and run for a kiss.

Beautiful, vivacious, fluent in French, a fine musician, and an accomplished horsewoman, she grew up and became a popular guest at parties and balls. Long afterward she wrote of all this as quite harmless, except for distractions at night prayers and the bother of fussing over dresses. Small wonder young William Seton fell head over heels in love with her. She returned his love adoringly and they were married, surely to live happily ever after.
It began felicitously enough in a gracious home on Wall Street, William busy at his family’s shipping business, Elizabeth with the beginnings of a family. Anna Maria was born, then young Willy, and then came a thin thread of worry in the form of William’s ill health. With the death of his father, their fortunes began to decline. William was tormented by visions of debtor’s prison, while Elizabeth was certain that God would help them to survive. “Troubles always create a great exertion of my mind,” she wrote, “and give it a force to which at other times it is incapable.. . . I think the greatest happiness of this life is to be released from the cares of what is called the world.”

In two and a half years, they were bankrupt. Elizabeth spent that Christmas watching the front door to keep out the seizure officer. The following summer she and the children stayed with her father, who was health officer for the Port of New York on Staten Island. When she saw the babies of newly arrived Irish immigrants starving at their mothers’ breasts, she begged her physician father to let her nurse some of them since she was weaning her fourth child, but he refused. By summer’s end, he too was a victim of the yellow fever epidemic, and Elizabeth was grief-stricken. More and more she turned to the Scriptures and the spiritual life, and in May of 1802 she wrote in a letter that her soul was “sensibly convinced of an entire surrender of itself and all its faculties to God.”

Then in 1803, the doctor suggested a sea journey for William’s health. Against Elizabeth’s better judgment they set sail for Italy to visit their friends, the Felicchi family. To pay for the voyage, she sold the last of her possessions-silver, vases, pictures, all probably inherited from her father. The voyage was pleasant, but arriving at Leghorn they were quarantined in a stone tower on a cane outside the city because of the yellow fever epidemic in New York. There she endured for forty days the cruelest suffering she was ever to know, possibly the key to all that happened during the rest of her life. She wept, then reproached herself for behaving as though God were not present. She tended the racked patient, now coughing blood; amused Anna Maria, who had come with them, with stories and games; and held little prayer services. When the cold numbed them beyond bearing, she and Anna Maria skipped rope. William died two days after Christmas in Pisa, at the age of thirty-seven. Only the laundress would help the young widow to lay out his body.

While waiting to return to America, Elizabeth attended the churches of her Italian friends where she was deeply impressed by the Catholic belief in the real presence. If this teaching about the Blessed Sacrament had been held in the Episcopal church in New York at the time, Elizabeth Seton’s story might have been very different, for this doctrine was at the very heart of her conversion. Returning to New York, poor now and living upstairs in a little house supplied by friends, the news of her interest in the church stirred up consternation on all sides. She agonized with indecision about it until finally, on March 14, 1805, she became a Roman Catholic.

Several plans to support her family failed, and finally she opened a boardinghouse for schoolboys; but when her sister-in-law, Cecelia Seton, became a Roman Catholic also, her angry supporters withdrew. Hearing of her need, the president of St. Mary’s College in Baltimore offered her a residence with a teaching position in that city. She accepted and left New York for good on June 8, 1808.

In March of 1809, she pronounced her vows before Bishop John Carroll of Baltimore, was given some property in Emmitsburg, Maryland, and in June she, her three daughters, her sisters-in-law, Cecelia and Harriet Seton, and four young women who had joined them, began what was to become the American foundation of the Sisters of Charity. For special occasions they wore black dresses with shoulder capes, a simple white bonnet tied under the chin (like Elizabeth’s mourning dress); and for everyday they wore whatever else they had. Their temporary abode provided four rooms, two cots, mattresses on the floor under a leaky roof where in winter snow sifted down over them. Vegetables, now and then a bit of salt pork or buttermilk, and a beverage called carrot coffee was their fare-all flavored with that great zest for survival which had become a habit with Elizabeth. When they moved to their unfinished permanent home they were invaded by fleas which had infested the horsehair for the plaster. Finally the home was completed and they had “an elegant little chapel, 30 cells, an infirmary, refectory, parlor, school, and workroom.”

In 1811 Mother Seton adopted the rules and constitution of St. Vincent de Paul, with some modifications, and the institution, having received the sanction of the highest ecclesiastical authority, became a religious order. Afterward a group of buildings, embracing a residence for the Sisters, a novitiate, a boarding-school for young girls, a school for poor children, and an orphan asylum, was erected.

In 1814 Mother Seton sent a colony of Sisters to Philadelphia to take charge of the orphan asylum. In 1817, in response to another application from New York, another body came to that city. At her death there were more than twenty communities of Sisters of Charity, conducting free schools, orphanages, boarding-schools, and hospitals, in the states of Pennsylvania, New York, Ohio, Delaware, Massachusetts, Virginia, Missouri, and Louisiana, and in the District of Columbia. Although, according to the constitution of her order, no one could be elected to the office of mother-superior for more than two terms successively, an exception was made in her favor by the unanimous desire of her companions, and she held the office during life.

Elizabeth Seton died slowly and painfully of the tuberculosis which had stricken all her family. At the last she was sustained on nothing but a little port wine. She had written to her best friend not long before, “I’ll be wild Betsy to the last.” The night of her death, January 4, 1821, she began the prayers for the dying herself, and one of the sisters, knowing that she loved French, prayed the Gloria and the Magnificent in French with her. The spirited young woman who had wanted only to marry a handsome man, be a happy wife, and raise a pretty family, had had adventures beyond her wildest dreams. Loving by nature, she grew in faith and hope because of trial, not in spite of it. And with each trial God revealed resources, strength, and courage she did not know she possessed.

Mother Seton was canonized the first American-born saint by Pope Paul VI in 1975.

AN INVITATION to MUSIC MINISTRY

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When we gather, our prayer is a communal action that invites and involves us, action that unites and ignites us. We can be Christ for one another when we share of ourselves with our parish community as in our Music Ministry. There are many opportunities available for all members of all ages to be involved:

Adult Choir All Adults (High School Grads & Beyond)
Rehearses Wednesday evenings 7:30-9:00 pm

High School Choir Guys & Girls, Grades 7-12 Choir members and Instrumentalists
Rehearses Wednesdays 6:30-7:45 pm

Youth Choir All Boys & Girls in Grades 3, 4, 5 & 6
Rehearses Wednesdays 5:10-6:10 pm

Instrumentalists Adults (High School Grads & Beyond) who play Trumpet, Trombone, Flute, Violin & Guitar

 

Involvement in Music Ministry helps to enliven the prayer experience of our community and nurture your personal spiritual life.
See our Parish Music Directors, Allen & Patti Stock, after Mass or contact them at sesmusic@comcast.net.

 

 

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For visitors and newcomers, our website is a great resource to learn about the exciting things that are happening every week at St. Elizabeth Seton.

Whether you are visiting our site to learn about our parish community or to simply look for information posted on these pages, we hope your visit will be informative as well as pleasant. You will find on these pages information about who we are, where we are located, how to join us for prayer and worship and how to become a member of our Catholic faith community, as well as other materials on sacramental, ministerial, educational and service opportunities.

Please take some time to explore our website fully and in particular these areas:SES, Naperville

  • Who We Are
  • Parish Registration Form online
  • Sunday Bulletins
  • Religious Education program for children
  • Baptism Preparation
  • Ministries
  • Photo and Video Archives
  • Virtual Tour – Inside
  • Virtual Tour – Outside

If you have any questions or concerns, please feel free to call the parish office or email the parish at stelizabethseton@gmail.com.

Who We Are

We are the people of St. Elizabeth Seton Parish in Naperville, IL, the Diocese of Joliet in Illinois.

Parish Office Summer Hours

The Parish Center will be open Monday-Thursday from 8:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. (closed from 12:30 to 1:30 P.M.)  On Fridays, hours will be 8:00 a.m. to noon.

The Religious Education office will be open Monday-Thursday from 8:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m.  On Friday, hours will be 8:00 a.m. to noon.

Welcome & Information Center

Welcome and Information Center:

This center provides information on parish life for parishioners and visitors.  Located here are handouts, forms, references and referrals on the whole range of parish and Catholic life items and issues.  It is located in the upper level narthex and is designed to echo our commitment to be a welcoming and informative parish.

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