Who We Are

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Mission Statement

We are people of God gathering together in prayer and faith as the community of St. Elizabeth Seton.

The Eucharist is our gathering point, where evangelization is lived through worship, word, service and community. Lay leadership and responsible stewardship are integral to our Parish.

Our mission, individually and collectively, is to live the Gospel message and create a loving environment in which people feel welcome to participate, grow, worship and share their talents in service to God and neighbor. We shall strive to become more prayerful, peaceful people.

Staff Directory

SES Pastoral Staff



Rev. Richard Smith

Pastor

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Rev. Patrick Murphy

Resident

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Rev. Phillip Timko, O.S.B.

Weekend Assistant

 

 

Andy Cirmo

Deacon

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Bart Federici

Deacon

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Scott Pace

Deacon

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Tom Ross

Deacon

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Bob Dooley

Facilities Manager

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Peggy Idstein

Director of Religious Education (Elementary)

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Mike Kuhn

Director of Religious Education (High School)

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Kathy McGowan

Business Manager

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Sr. Karen Nykiel, O.S.B.

Pastoral Associate

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Jenny Sider

6 PM Mass Music Director

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Annette Spiezio

Parish Counselor

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Kathy Ross, R.N.

Parish Nurse

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Sheila Stevenson

Director of Religious Education (Jr. High)

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Allen & Patti Stock

Music Directors

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Support Staff

Felicia Donofrio

Parish Secretary

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Ron Joyce

Facilities Assistant

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Terry Polivka

Facilities Assistant

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Donna Majeski

Bulletin Editor

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Mary Mellens

R.E. Secretary

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Evelia Stueber

Sr. Administrative Assistant

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Jim Stueber

Facilities Assistant

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Heather Van Gessel

R.E. Secretary

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Parish History

July 1, 1986 St. Elizabeth Seton Parish founded. Parishioners named St. Elizabeth Seton after America’s first native-born Saint. She was the founder of the Sisters of Charity.
July 5, 1986 Bishop Joseph Imesch celebrated the first Mass at Scott School.
1986 to 1995 Fr. Tony Nugent served as the founding Pastor. Initially, 228 families were registered.
Masses celebrated at Scott School and the parish offices located at College Square Mall.
Easter 1987 Sunday Masses moved to Madison Jr. High School, with some summer Sunday Masses celebrated at Kennedy Jr. High School. Holy Day Masses celebrated at Sacred Heart Convent in Lisle. Baptisms and First Communions took place at St. Procopius Abbey in Lisle. Funerals held at St. Margaret Mary Church in Naperville.
July 1987 Sr. Frances McCarron, IBVM joined the Staff as Pastoral Associate. Sr. Frances was with us from 1989 to 1996 and then again from 2002 to 2006.
September, 1987 Our own Religious Education program began with Sr. Patricia Thompson as Director from 1987 to 2001.
June 1988 Fr. John Baluff assigned Parochial Vicar. (1988-1993)
September 17, 1989 Groundbreaking for the current church building occurred. The number of registered families had grown to 1130.
December 18, 1990 Bishop Joseph Imesch dedicated the Church and the Worship Space. The Church and Worship Space continued to be a work in progress.
June 1993 Fr. Mark Jendrysik appointed Parochial Vicar. (1993-1996)
May 1994 A new Rectory acquired in Bolingbrook to make room for additional office space in the Parish Center.
June 1995 Fr. Ernest Norbeck named Pastor. (1995-2006)
February 1996 Fr. James Radek appointed Parochial Vicar. (1996-2002)
February 1997. Bishop Joseph Imesch consecrated the present altar and re-dedicated the Worship Space.
March 1997 The Saint’s mural by artist Lillian Brulc was begun.
Spring 1998 The stained glass windows in the Worship Space installed, the Great Hall was completed, and the parish had grown to 2300 registered families.
September 1999 St. Elizabeth Seton Preschool opened.
March 2000 Permanent seating in the Worship Space was installed.
Summer 2001 In the summer of 2001, renovation to the Worship Space occurred which included the Reredos, a new altar platform, and fresh painting.
April 2002 The Crucifix was added and unveiled at the Good Friday Service.
April 14, 2002 Pope John Paul II Perpetual Adoration Chapel opened.
August 2005 St. Elizabeth Seton Parish, St. Margaret Mary Parish and St. Thomas the Apostle opened All Saints Catholic Academy.
June 2006 Fr. Thomas Paul appointed as the third Pastor.
June 2006 Fr. Joseph Kibari named chaplain of Edward Hospital and priest in residence at SES.
July 2006 The 20th Anniversary of St. Elizabeth Seton Parish was celebrated.
2007 The exterior of the church was resided, with an exterior cross installed.  Stations of the Cross were added, the daily Mass Chapel was furnished and implemented, the Reconciliation Room was renovated and the Holy Family statue was added to the church interior.
2008 A new organ was installed and dedicated, the Baptismal font marble liner was installed, along with an Ambre, and a statue of Jesus and the Children was added to the Narthex.
October, 2008 A statue of St. Elizabeth Seton was installed in the church. In 2009, the St. Elizabeth Seton Shrine was completed with the addition of a relic case and petition book.
2009 The Christ Renews His Parish Retreat Experience for adults was introduced in the parish.
June 2009 The first priest from St. Elizabeth Seton parish, Dindo Billote, was ordained for the Diocese of Joliet
Fall 2009 Improvements to the grounds of the parish, including brick pavers at the entrance of the church, restoration of the background behind the exterior St. Elizabeth Seton statue, resurfacing of the west parking lot, and the addition of an electric sign, were completed in the fall of 2009
Fall 2009 Fr. Joseph Kibari returned to Nigeria
Fall 2009 Fr. Stan Tabor joined our parish as priest in residence
Winter 2010 Fr. Thomas Paul on sabitical to Rome; Fr. Daniel Stempora, retired, was acting pastor during Fr. Tom’s absence
June 2010 Fr. Stan Tabor moved to a parish in Chicago; Fr. Patrick Murphy was named our “priest in residence” and chaplain of Edward Hospital and Elmhurst Hospital
June 2010 Fr. Thomas L. Paul named pastor of Immaculate Conception Parish in Elmhurst – effective July 30, 2010
June 2010 Fr. Richard Smith named fourth pastor of St. Elizabeth Seton Parish, Naperville, effective July 30, 2010

This document describes our parish structure and all the many ministries that work together for the good of the people of God. 

2009 SES Guide Book

Our Patron Saint

St. Elizabeth Seton statue at SES

Our parish is named after the first American Saint, St. Elizabeth Ann Bayley Seton.

We have taken the opportunity of portraying her life and struggles in our stained glass windows.  In 2008, a special prayer area was created with an original statue.

Links to more information about the life of our patron:

National Shrine: Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton

Catholic Online article on her life

Links to info about our church building:

Biography of Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton

St. Elizabeth Ann Bailey Seton

St. Elizabeth Ann Bailey Seton

SETON, Elizabeth Ann Bayley,

born in New York city, 28 August, 1774 ;
died in Emmitsburg, Maryland, 4 January, 1821.
canonized the first American-born saint by Pope Paul VI in 1975.

Elizabeth Ann Bayley, one of two daughters of a prominent Episcopal family, was born in New York on August 28, 1774. She was a charming little girl, small-boned and dainty, with great brown eyes. Having lost her mother at the age of three, she was deeply attached to her physician father and used to sit beside her schoolroom window watching for him on the street. When he appeared, she would slip out quickly and run for a kiss.

Beautiful, vivacious, fluent in French, a fine musician, and an accomplished horsewoman, she grew up and became a popular guest at parties and balls. Long afterward she wrote of all this as quite harmless, except for distractions at night prayers and the bother of fussing over dresses. Small wonder young William Seton fell head over heels in love with her. She returned his love adoringly and they were married, surely to live happily ever after.
It began felicitously enough in a gracious home on Wall Street, William busy at his family’s shipping business, Elizabeth with the beginnings of a family. Anna Maria was born, then young Willy, and then came a thin thread of worry in the form of William’s ill health. With the death of his father, their fortunes began to decline. William was tormented by visions of debtor’s prison, while Elizabeth was certain that God would help them to survive. “Troubles always create a great exertion of my mind,” she wrote, “and give it a force to which at other times it is incapable.. . . I think the greatest happiness of this life is to be released from the cares of what is called the world.”

In two and a half years, they were bankrupt. Elizabeth spent that Christmas watching the front door to keep out the seizure officer. The following summer she and the children stayed with her father, who was health officer for the Port of New York on Staten Island. When she saw the babies of newly arrived Irish immigrants starving at their mothers’ breasts, she begged her physician father to let her nurse some of them since she was weaning her fourth child, but he refused. By summer’s end, he too was a victim of the yellow fever epidemic, and Elizabeth was grief-stricken. More and more she turned to the Scriptures and the spiritual life, and in May of 1802 she wrote in a letter that her soul was “sensibly convinced of an entire surrender of itself and all its faculties to God.”

Then in 1803, the doctor suggested a sea journey for William’s health. Against Elizabeth’s better judgment they set sail for Italy to visit their friends, the Felicchi family. To pay for the voyage, she sold the last of her possessions-silver, vases, pictures, all probably inherited from her father. The voyage was pleasant, but arriving at Leghorn they were quarantined in a stone tower on a cane outside the city because of the yellow fever epidemic in New York. There she endured for forty days the cruelest suffering she was ever to know, possibly the key to all that happened during the rest of her life. She wept, then reproached herself for behaving as though God were not present. She tended the racked patient, now coughing blood; amused Anna Maria, who had come with them, with stories and games; and held little prayer services. When the cold numbed them beyond bearing, she and Anna Maria skipped rope. William died two days after Christmas in Pisa, at the age of thirty-seven. Only the laundress would help the young widow to lay out his body.

While waiting to return to America, Elizabeth attended the churches of her Italian friends where she was deeply impressed by the Catholic belief in the real presence. If this teaching about the Blessed Sacrament had been held in the Episcopal church in New York at the time, Elizabeth Seton’s story might have been very different, for this doctrine was at the very heart of her conversion. Returning to New York, poor now and living upstairs in a little house supplied by friends, the news of her interest in the church stirred up consternation on all sides. She agonized with indecision about it until finally, on March 14, 1805, she became a Roman Catholic.

Several plans to support her family failed, and finally she opened a boardinghouse for schoolboys; but when her sister-in-law, Cecelia Seton, became a Roman Catholic also, her angry supporters withdrew. Hearing of her need, the president of St. Mary’s College in Baltimore offered her a residence with a teaching position in that city. She accepted and left New York for good on June 8, 1808.

In March of 1809, she pronounced her vows before Bishop John Carroll of Baltimore, was given some property in Emmitsburg, Maryland, and in June she, her three daughters, her sisters-in-law, Cecelia and Harriet Seton, and four young women who had joined them, began what was to become the American foundation of the Sisters of Charity. For special occasions they wore black dresses with shoulder capes, a simple white bonnet tied under the chin (like Elizabeth’s mourning dress); and for everyday they wore whatever else they had. Their temporary abode provided four rooms, two cots, mattresses on the floor under a leaky roof where in winter snow sifted down over them. Vegetables, now and then a bit of salt pork or buttermilk, and a beverage called carrot coffee was their fare-all flavored with that great zest for survival which had become a habit with Elizabeth. When they moved to their unfinished permanent home they were invaded by fleas which had infested the horsehair for the plaster. Finally the home was completed and they had “an elegant little chapel, 30 cells, an infirmary, refectory, parlor, school, and workroom.”

In 1811 Mother Seton adopted the rules and constitution of St. Vincent de Paul, with some modifications, and the institution, having received the sanction of the highest ecclesiastical authority, became a religious order. Afterward a group of buildings, embracing a residence for the Sisters, a novitiate, a boarding-school for young girls, a school for poor children, and an orphan asylum, was erected.

In 1814 Mother Seton sent a colony of Sisters to Philadelphia to take charge of the orphan asylum. In 1817, in response to another application from New York, another body came to that city. At her death there were more than twenty communities of Sisters of Charity, conducting free schools, orphanages, boarding-schools, and hospitals, in the states of Pennsylvania, New York, Ohio, Delaware, Massachusetts, Virginia, Missouri, and Louisiana, and in the District of Columbia. Although, according to the constitution of her order, no one could be elected to the office of mother-superior for more than two terms successively, an exception was made in her favor by the unanimous desire of her companions, and she held the office during life.

Elizabeth Seton died slowly and painfully of the tuberculosis which had stricken all her family. At the last she was sustained on nothing but a little port wine. She had written to her best friend not long before, “I’ll be wild Betsy to the last.” The night of her death, January 4, 1821, she began the prayers for the dying herself, and one of the sisters, knowing that she loved French, prayed the Gloria and the Magnificent in French with her. The spirited young woman who had wanted only to marry a handsome man, be a happy wife, and raise a pretty family, had had adventures beyond her wildest dreams. Loving by nature, she grew in faith and hope because of trial, not in spite of it. And with each trial God revealed resources, strength, and courage she did not know she possessed.

Mother Seton was canonized the first American-born saint by Pope Paul VI in 1975.

We are the people of St. Elizabeth Seton Parish in Naperville, IL, the Diocese of Joliet in Illinois.